Picking up a cat can be awkward. How does one even go about holding a cat? Should we pick them up a certain way? Should we hold them in a specific way? Holding a cat can be just part of the two of you bonding or enjoying some snuggle time on the couch if thatโs your catโs thing. However, there also might be times when holding a cat is necessaryโlike picking him up to remove him from the counter that heโs not supposed to be on, for example.
Sometimes, cats cooperate when you pick them up. It seems that more often than not though, many cats kind of make thingsโฆawkward. Here are some tips that will help you figure out the best way to hold a cat.
When Holding a Cat, Always Respect Your Catโs Boundaries
As with anything when it comes to our feline friends, respect your catโs boundaries. If sheโs not a natural snuggler and doesnโt seem to love it when you try to pick her up and cuddle, then donโt do it. I know, I know, itโs so incredibly tempting because cats are just so cute! Iโve struggled with this myself, but Iโve learned to adjust since having a cat in the house who absolutely does not want snuggles unless he initiates them. It makes for a happier cat who is actually, in the long run, much more inclined to initiate snuggles with me than he used to be.
Be Gentle and Quiet
Iโm pretty sure I probably donโt have to tell you this, but just in case: donโt stomp over to your cat, making loud and obnoxious sounds, and expect to pick him up. Approach the cat gently and calmly to avoid frightening the poor creature.
Use Both Hands
Once youโve quietly approached your cat, youโll need to use both of your hands to pick her up. Even with small cats, itโs generally less uncomfortable for them if you use both hands to gently lift them up. One of your hands should be supporting kittyโs backside while the other can be tucked under kittyโs chest. This way, youโre supporting more of your catโs weight in an even manner.
Avoid Dangling Legs When Holding a Cat
Be sure that as you support both the back side and the chest, youโre supporting your catโs legs as well. Most cats arenโt going to love if it their paws are dangling outside of your arms. Try to make sure kittyโs back paws are tucked comfortably into your arm as you support her rear end. Similarly, you can use your other arm to give her a place to rest her front legs and paws.
Adjust Hold as Needed
We know cats are unique, so some of them may prefer some tweaks to the way they are held. If your cat is smaller and your arms are larger or longer, you may be able to have kitty balance on your forearm and still have her properly supported, with paws and legs tucked comfortably in. Pay attention to your catโs movements and whether she lets out any squeaks of protest when you hold her, as this is a key indicator of whether sheโs comfortable being held that way.
